I just have a few questions to anyone who might know something about this or be able to relate to my situation. I have been having trouble with my husband going to watch my kids games. It's always a fight or an arquement when it comes to me asking him to come watch my daughter cheer at her high school football and basketball games. Whenever I ask him he refuses and has gone on a few occassions but it was a real task just to get him there (very mentally draining to say the least!) Last week I mentined that my daughter had her last homecoming game coming up and didn't force him to say hed come, just mentioned it and he said "I'll go with you" I was very suprised but was happy that he agreed to go. When it came time for the game I waited a while and then said it's time to go and he started to complain and nag but I just ignored him as I thought it would be good for him to go and that maybe he would get over it once we got to the game. Once we got there he started to say how he hated crowds and everyone staring at him when he walked through. I tried to explain to him that it was ok and noenone is paying attention to him and if they look, "who cares" anyway he just started getttng really mad and would not get out of the car and told me to take him home...so I did and then I went back to the game and watched it myself,once again! I really feel like he has some kind of a anxiety problem..If anyome has any suggestions or comments that might help me to figure him out or what I should do, please help!! I told him that it is over between us..I just feel like I am all alone because I basically am and I might as well be on my own. I really don't know if I am over reacting if he really has a problem and can't help it. I just feel like he needs to get over it and think about someone besides hemself. Am I being inconsiderate?
Please Help!!!